My Relationship with Moving
MaryJayne Waddell | MAR 23, 2024
My Relationship with Moving
MaryJayne Waddell | MAR 23, 2024

I could not wait to move out of my childhood home.
As it happened, I tearfully said goodbye to my high school friends
as they packed up and moved on to college.
For me, moving would have to wait another year
until I worked and saved enough money for my college experience.
That year crawled.
Even though my college was only an hour away,
I would be moving out, and moving toward
my dream of life on the stage.
For the next six years I would be moving from theme parks
to cruise ships to tours and then, the dream move:
to New York City!
You know, "If I can make it there, I'll make it anywhere."
I ended up moving to NYC a couple times.
I loved moving. I loved risk. I loved living my dream.
Not all my moves held that much optimism.
There were several that were not part of my dreamscape.
A move back to my childhood home after my Mom died.
A move to my sister's house when my marriage ended.
A move to a dear friend's house after another relationship ended.
A move due to Covid and the loss of a gig.
Stagnant. Immobile. Reality.
Next week, I'm moving again.
This move is my choice.
It's a move where I'll have space for my memories, belongings and
a steamer trunk that's been locked in a storage unit since 2010.

The steamer trunk was my Grandmothers, Louise.
She was 3 years old when her Canadian Mother decided
her life would be better living in the United States
with her Aunt. I always wondered, was the dream for Louise
or for herself? My Grandmother had a tough life.
What inspires us to move?
Is it towards something, somewhere or someone better?
A dream, an opportunity, a chance to start over?
I know this is not my final move.
I still have dreams.
Stop worrying where you're going
Move on
If you can know where you're going
You've gone
Just keep moving on
~Sondheim...Sunday in the Park with George
MaryJayne Waddell | MAR 23, 2024
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